First written over 20 years ago, Loving Some Gay has become one of the most respected sources of information about gay people for those who are not members of the gay community. Written in straightforward, non-clinical language, it seeks to build understanding of gay people in the “straight” community and is written for loved ones, friends, and colleagues of gay people. As a starting point in bridging this communication and understanding gap, this book has earned a reputation for rich and detailed information in a format and tone accessible to everyone.
Don Clark, a clinical psychologist, covers a variety of topics from what it means to be gay and how this affects the development of a gay person, to building support networks and community for gay people, and detailed information for professionals in the community on how they can support and assist gay people. He also strives to move family and friends from simple tolerance and understanding of LGBT persons, to love and acceptance of their gay son or daughter, best friend, or spouse.
Particularly useful for librarians is a chapter that outlines what educators and librarians can do to support gay people and provide the right information for the LGBT community.
The fifth edition has been completely rewritten and updated, but retains the direct and honest tone of previous editions while adding new resources and information to the mix. Highly recommended for all library collections.
Reviewed by, Matthew P. Ciszek
Head Librarian
Penn State Shenango